Emu XL-7 & MP-7 User's Group

Hey gang,
I've been using the Protean Drums ROM pretty much exclusively since I 
got it, 'cause it's just so damn good! My question applies to any 
ROM, though. When you guys mix songs, do you spend a lot of time 
EQ'ing (or using filters to achieve the same effect) the kick drums 
in your patterns, or do you just use them "as is"? I record 
everything track-by-track into a Yamaha AW16G DAW, so I usually spend 
a bit of time EQ'ing the kick drum. I never EVER seem to be 
completely happy with the results, though. The kick is always either 
too bassy, or it lacks the real "oooomph" that I want it to have. The 
rest of the drums - I'm happy with. But the kick drums are a 
nightmare for me. I was really just wondering if this is a common 
problem for everyone, and what tips/tricks you guys use to overcome 
it. Thanks!
Fab