Milter-greylist

I'm moving a mailserver from freebsd to debian.

The apt version of milter-greylist is 3.x... which is too old for my  
existing configuration.

But I'm unable to get 4.2.3 to compile.

Generally, I get:
Required libmilter not found. Use --with-libmilter


I've installed libmilter-dev

If I point directly to libmilter.so, I start see all sorts of warnings:
configure: WARNING: sys/param.h: present but cannot be compiled
configure: WARNING: sys/param.h:     check for missing prerequisite  
headers?
configure: WARNING: sys/param.h: see the Autoconf documentation
configure: WARNING: sys/param.h:     section "Present But Cannot Be  
Compiled"
configure: WARNING: sys/param.h: proceeding with the preprocessor's  
result
configure: WARNING: sys/param.h: in the future, the compiler will take  
precedence
configure: WARNING:     ## ------------------------------ ##
configure: WARNING:     ## Report this to manu@... ##
configure: WARNING:     ## ------------------------------ ##

What am I missing?

Bill

PS. So far I'm not impresses with Debian support of sendmail, and the  
crond doesn't support timezone!

Bill Levering
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