Milter-greylist

ok, problem half solved. At issue was the line in sendmail.mc of 
define(`confINPUT_MAIL_FILTERS', `clamav-milter')

I changed it to 
define(`confINPUT_MAIL_FILTERS', `greylist, clamav-milter') 

and started seeing things in the maillog.

UNFORTUNATELY, what i saw was :
error connecting to filter Connection refused by
/var/milter-greylist/milter-greylist.sock


Now this puzzles me. I am using the greylist-milter provided HACK and
am running the program via the command line of:
/usr/local/bin/milter-greylist -u root -p
/var/milter-greylist/milter-greylist.sock -v

so, went and tried 
/usr/local/bin/milter-greylist -p
/var/milter-greylist/milter-greylist.sock

which now did not blow up.

Restarted sendmail and whala - it seems to be doing something :)