Milter-greylist

hi all 

i am running 2 mail-gateways on solaris 9 with milter-greylist 1.3.8
and tried to activate the peer statement, each with the others 
ip-address. in syslog i found the following lines repeating: 

May 31 00:10:29 dzsmtp1 milter-greylist: [ID 829402 mail.info] Incoming MX sync connexion from 194.37.61.90
May 31 00:10:29 dzsmtp2 milter-greylist: [ID 699817 mail.info] Connection to 194.37.61.86 established
May 31 00:10:29 dzsmtp2 milter-greylist: [ID 421412 mail.error] Unexpected reply "200" from 194.37.61.86, closing connexion (52 entries queued)

i tried a telnet interactively to port 5252 and it seams to work.
then i looked around in the source-code and didn't found 
any reply-code 200 as error-msg. it seems, that this "200" 
comes from the welcome-dialog just bevor and is hanging in any buffer.
so for me looks like that the synchronisation of this protocoll 5252
doesn't work correctly, but maybe i am wrong. 

is anybody out there, who's running milter-greylists on 2 mx
successfully with the peer-statement in the config-file ? 

or any other ideas ? 

best regards from vienna
hans

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