I don't want to linger too much on this anymore but just a couple of points: KA B [mailto:kab@...] wrote: > As is surely obvious I am an African. I hope you will understand that, > honestly, it is the insidious 'raindrop' effect that is oh-so-terribly > wearing. It is a genuine reality of my life that every one in > three people I > meet is a bigot. I walk into a shop to make a simple purchase and I am > expected to just laugh politely when someone makes a quite unnecessary > remark about the colour of my skin. Well in fact it's not obvious to me. In fact quite honestly I don't think about what race people are on this list. That's possible partly where I went wrong with my original remark! I find it very sad if you really mean 1 in 3, in fact I find it hard to believe. > immediately before the one in which you actually apologised, you went > through that old and tired 'Some of my best friends are Spanish' routine. > Please Phil ... can you but imagine HOW MANY TIMES I have had to > endure this > in my life. That was precisely the point I was making. I don't know any Spanish people (close enough to call friends) so I was asking do I need to stoop that low to prevent offending people who I didn't feel had the need to be offended. I hope you understand what I am getting at by this? If you read it again (if you feel it important enough) I think you may realize what I meant. Positive racialism is as bad as negative racialism. Personally I just think it displays someone's profound weakness when they refer to people as 'pakies' or 'wogs' etc, (they are usually just doing it to divert attention for their own inadequacies). I think however it is just as bad when you hear someone say 'oh I don't know, they're not that bad, in fact my next door neighbour is one and he's alright'. Anyway...the times they are a changing...they wouldn't get away with 'Love Thy Neighbour' anymore (the TV program), apart from the fact it was completely unfunny in a comedy sense. > The truth is, actually, that this is the third time that I have tried to > join the Logic list. Well I guess we both have to take the rough with the smooth if we are going to be members of a multi-national community. I think there is far more non racial abuse on the list than racial, and one would like to think the racial is from a small minority who are quite welcome at any time to make a complete ass of themselves. > I have done absolutely nothing to earn the kind of insensitivity and > crassness that I have seen displayed upon this list to people like me, and > it would oblige me very greatly indeed if people would please make that > little bit more effort to just STOP IT. All it takes is a little bit of > thought. As Phil has said: he has learned a lesson. I just do not > understand > why we had to go through all this to learn it. I agree, though I would like to remind you that mine was not racial and was a remark about it being ONLY in Spanish rather than BEING in Spanish. > And to you Phil, I would honestly like to say that if ever I pass > you on the > street then I would really rather like to stop and buy you a > drink and just > jaw for a while; and I do hope that what has just passed between > us has not > offended you so very greatly that you feel that you would really rather > refuse it. Well it would be a real coincidence if we did meet in the street one day, but I'd be happy to have a drink and chat about music etc, or even Logic God forbid!). It would be a sad day indeed if we ended up talking about racial issues! Regards, Phil
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RE: [L-OT] Interview with Gerhard Lengeling
2000-12-17 by Phil Angus
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