If you really want to use an iron, what I did was put a big via in the middle of the pad - big enough to solder the pad from the back side through the hole. Don't rely on your smallest tip, though - use something beefy enough to heat up all that copper. You'll need flux in there too. But I find that using a hotplate makes QFNs much easier. Also, don't skimp on the amount of pad that extends beyond the chip on the PCB. You'll need that for soldering the pins. You'll need flux there too.
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Re: [Homebrew_PCBs] Soldering QFNs
2009-07-29 by DJ Delorie